When Howie first connected with Jeremy through Cancer Hope Network, neither could have predicted the meaningful bond that would grow from their regular conversations. But as they celebrated the one-year anniversary of their mentor/mentee connection, they reflected on their journey, and both realized they had built something special— a relationship rooted in trust, empathy, and shared experience that blossomed into a true friendship.
Howie’s introduction to peer support was a bit rocky. His initial experience with this type of support during his prostate cancer journey left him feeling overwhelmed rather than supported. That contrast helped him recognize, and deeply appreciate, Jeremy’s thoughtful approach. Jeremy listened closely, spoke with care, and never shared more than Howie was ready to hear. His steady, measured presence helped Howie feel grounded rather than alarmed.
Over time, their biweekly calls became a rhythm of connection. They swapped articles, discussed life, and even explored the benefits of journaling. For Howie, Jeremy’s calm mentorship support created space to reflect, process, and grow. For Jeremy, Howie’s boundless positivity was a source of inspiration.
Eventually, they decided to meet in person at a New Jersey farmers’ market, where Howie sells his signature sauces and dressings. Jeremy’s first attempt at navigating public transportation from New York ended in a detour. But undeterred, he tried again and made it. When they finally met, it felt like a reunion of longtime friends. They shared lunch, laughter, and a moment that symbolized the trust and connection they had cultivated from afar.
For both men, their mentoring journey became more than a series of conversations. It became a testament to the power of showing up, listening with empathy, and finding common ground in shared stories.
Their experience is a reminder that sometimes, the simplest gestures— a listening ear, a kind word, a shared meal, a walk through a market— can create the most meaningful connections.
